Can you sue your spouse’s paramour for wrecking your marriage?

  1. What legal claims do you have if your spouse has been unfaithful?

         In a few states, the commission that determines alimony or spousal support will take adultery into consideration. It’s possible that a spouse’s extramarital affair will prohibit them from getting the alimony to which they are otherwise entitled. It is possible that your case for maintenance may be strengthened if the other spouse has been unfaithful. Imagine that you live in a state that includes marital infidelity, such as adultery, as a consideration in the alimony decision-making process. If this is the case, you must be sure that you have all the proof necessary to support your claim. It’s possible that in certain jurisdictions, including South Carolina, an accusation of adultery will allow you to file for divorce earlier than the waiting period that the law requires (this varies from state to state, although one year is standard in most states).

         There are certain states that do not recognize adultery as a claim or factor; thus, it is possible that your cheating partner’s infidelity will not impact the outcome of your divorce or separation case. However, because the rules governing cheating and your rights vary from state to state, it is essential that you are aware of what the laws in your state say about these topics.

  2. What evidence is necessary to prove your partner’s infidelity?

         There is a possibility that all of the signs of adultery are there, such as your partner arriving home smelling like perfume or you discovering a receipt for a meal for two at the most expensive restaurant in town when you are certain that you were not the one who was fed that evening. But do you think this is enough proof to prove that your husband is cheating on you?

         In general, the phrase “cheating” can refer to a wide variety of different situations. An emotional affair, improper text messages, extramarital dating, or sexual engagement are all examples of behaviors that fall under the umbrella term “infidelity.” You will need to provide evidence in many different places showing the relationship between the two of you was more than a momentary glimpse or a friendship-turned-romance. When it comes down to it, you need to demonstrate that your husband participated in sexual activities with a third person. This is a must.

         It is not required to capture your spouse and the third individual, who is commonly referred to as the “paramour.” It is possible to demonstrate that your spouse has been unfaithful by providing evidence that they are both capable of and interested in having sexual contact with another person. This might be photographs showing your spouse and a third party checking into and checking out of a hotel room many hours later. It’s possible that it might entail two people holding hands and kissing in public, then going to a third person’s house to engage in sexual activity afterward. You should consult with your lawyer before deciding whether or not to hire a private investigator. A private investigator is often somebody who is qualified or experienced in the laws and requirements for proof of an affair.

         Even though the court has the ability to subpoena emails and phone records, you should seek the advice of an attorney before taking any action if you are considering a divorce and believe that your husband has cheated on you in the past or is doing so at this time. If you believe that he is still cheating on you. When your feelings are likely to be running high, it may be more destructive than advantageous in the long run to face the issue head-on with your soon-to-be-ex without the essential evidence.

  3. How may your spouse’s adultery affect your parental rights?

         After going through a divorce, a person is typically more available to date. On the other hand, if your partner chooses to maintain their relationship with the person they cheated with, this might result in a more emotionally charged situation. In addition to this, it might make it extremely challenging, if not impossible, for you to bargain with a level mind. You may also feel uncomfortable with the idea of your children interacting with the person who is cheating on your husband.

         This feeling may be common and even sensible, but when your custody issue is brought before a court, whose responsibility it is to decide what is in the kid’s best interest, it may or may not matter. The court’s first concern will be with the child. For instance, some courts may conclude that it is not in the child’s best interest to be introduced to the young individual, while others may conclude that it is OK so long as the adults involved act in an appropriate manner.

         Parents committed to putting their children’s best interests first may be able to agree on when and how dating partners will be introduced to their children, even if it may take some work to sort through the conflicting feelings that arise in the process.
    This can be accomplished by creating a parenting agreement, sometimes known as a “parenting plan.” A parenting agreement can cover all custody-related difficulties and establish mutually applicable norms and principles that will allow each parent to feel generally at ease with their children meeting their co-new parent’s love partner.

         Suppose two parents cannot agree. In that case, a parenting coordinator can assist them in making co-parenting decisions, such as when the children may be introduced to a romantic partner. Typically, a parenting coordinator is an attorney or therapist who works as a neutral third party to assist two parents in a high-conflict custody dispute in resolving some matters on which they cannot agree.

  4. Can you sue your spouse’s lover for destroying your marriage?

         Depending on the state in which you reside, you may be able to pursue claims against your spouse’s mistress (the person with whom your spouse has cheated). A share in this category is “alienation of attachment.” Typically, you hear about this claim when there is a news story about a jury awarding a large sum of money in a high-profile case. Alienation of love, sometimes known as the “heart balm” tort, is a claim accessible to those who think their spouse has forsaken or left them due to the actions of a third person.

         A few states, including North Carolina, Hawaii, Illinois, Mississippi, New Mexico, South Dakota, and Utah, permit alienation of love claims. To pursue alienation of affection and satisfy the legal requirements of the claim, you must demonstrate that genuine love and affection existed between you and your spouse before your separation or divorce and that a third party was the controlling and proximate cause of your spouse’s alienation from you. It need not be the leading cause of your spouse’s departure or infidelity, but it must be a controlling element.

         If you live in one of the few states that allow this claim, addressing the difficulties surrounding proof of the affair is vital. There may be other viable grounds for action, such as negligent or deliberate infliction of mental distress. These assertions can be somewhat subtle. Therefore, it is essential to consult an expert divorce attorney to determine if the claim is accessible and whether you can satisfy the legal burden of evidence for such claims.